
WARNING:
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If you get caught in an akward relationship-threatening situation, such as doing *something* with another girl without realling meaning it that way, don't say "this isn't what you think" or "this isn't what it looks like". Very cliched. Hold her hand, she will pull away, then look her in the eyes and tell her you love her, and that she is the only one for you, and it really wasn't what it looked like, then explain.
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Never cheat. It remains perfectly understandable that you'll have wandering eyes, but realize where your heart is and stick to that. One time will be enough to convince a girl to dump you.
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Never hit a girl. Violence is unconditionally unjustified. You can hit them teasingly... Girls DO NOT like to be babied all the time and never be touched.
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Never over-do something. Switch things around a lot and you'll keep the excitement that builds a good relationship, though don't be too inconsistent.
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Never tell her she can not talk to her friends, even if they are guys.
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Give her space. She has friends, too, and doesn't want to be smothered.
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Try not to give her reasons to be jealous. Understand how your actions might look to her.
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Do not push her to do anything physical with you. She will most likely let you know when she is ready.
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Any boy can wait until a girl is ready to do something physical, it takes a man to be chaste even when she doesn't seem to mind. Don't wait for her to tell you to stop: Ask her. "Is this okay?" is all it takes to make the difference between being the best boyfriend in the world and doing something you both will regret.
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Never hold her family's actions against her. No one can help what their family does or says. You can share with her that it bothers you what someone might have done or said but leave it alone after that.
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Try your hardest to do your part of forgive and forget and let it be. No one likes to be reminded of their mistakes.
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Never forget her birthday or other events she will remember. Saying "Happy birthday" does not cut it; girls expect gifts for every holiday. If you do not get her something she will remember and think you're cheap! Late is better than never. Cards are better than nothing!
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Never tell her about something you almost did for her and then ended up not doing for whatever reason. Like saying 'I thought about getting you this gift, but changed my mind' or 'I was going to take the day off work to spend it with you and then decided it was a bad idea'. She will not think you were thoughtful, she will think you decided she wasn't worth it. This is worse than an oblivious boyfriend, because it shows you know how to be romantic and what to do, but don't find her valuable enough. These thoughts are definitely best kept to yourself.
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Go her way but girls don't like guys who apologizes and asks suggestions from her all the time. Sometimes it's just Ok lead the way.
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Don't embarrass her. Most girls, especially if they are teenagers, get embarrassed if you talk about panties, bras, and things like that. Remember, those sorts of things may be attractive to you, but to her they may be something she doesn't want to talk about. On the same idea, never tell a funny story about her without her consent, especially if she tries to stop you DO NOT CONTINUE. This will hurt her feelings, as it shows impressing your friends and making them laugh is more important to you than her not having to feel stupid.

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